@simonwoods @kitt I think my late night (for me) ramblings were not well thought out. I was trying to say that my personal way of handling things like that is to try to have a thick skin and give others the benefit of the doubt. My motive is to place the burden on myself and not on someone else. That is, to my thinking, both Christian and humane, and thus, considerate of others.
I apologize for my verbal clumsiness.